People with this attachment style grew up with caregivers who were unable to appropriately and consistently comfort them when they were afraid or upset.
Enmeshment leads to a very unhealthy family dynamic where the family as a whole is only happy if each individual denies their needs.
Everyone expresses and receives love in their own unique ways.
I mean, who didn't absolutely swoon every single time Rory opened his mouth?
The PERMA model gives us ways to positively impact our psyches, to help us water and weed and love the garden of our minds.