Having a shame-based personality means that, at my core, I truly believe that I am a bad, unlovable person.
Everyone expresses and receives love in their own unique ways.
I mean, who didn't absolutely swoon every single time Rory opened his mouth?
Basically, what I’m saying is: be invested. In-person relationships can go on for a while even if one or both people aren’t overly invested in each other. But apathy is a death sentence for a long-distance relationship.